Hannah Caplan’s play tries hard to please. With the help of a strong production directed by Douglas Clarke-Wood, its sold-out status at the Edinburgh fringe shows that it succeeds. A kind of rom-com preoccupied with the art of writing, with the conceit of being constructed as we watch, it’s a form of therapy for its characters. This Is Not About Me is layered, funny and clever. I’m just not sure anyone will like all of it. Hopefully I’m wrong, but it’s hard not to see the piece as effortful.
The love story is strong, aided by the chemistry between cast members Amaia Naima Aguinaga and Francis Nunnery, who give strong performances. Maybe it’s worth thinking of the show as a sex comedy; the scenes of intimacy are highlights. But the problem of highly articulate people complaining about communicating can be tiresome. Thankfully, Caplan injects strong observational comedy – the flirting is funny and the “post-sex honesty” appropriately excruciating. There’s a lot of wit in how clueless the characters are although it’s a missed opportunity that off-stage exes aren’t more clearly outlined.
Caplan’s writing about writing is not as successful. These parts of the play are clever, but less original, and the fact that this is acknowledged doesn’t make them any more interesting. The design and props help, though, featuring fabric and crochet – the set is full of surprises. And there’s strong video work from Inigo Woodham-Smith that explores the relationship between stage and screen neatly. Caplan is good at injecting humour to deflate pretention. But it is still hard not to see the show as taking itself too seriously.
Part of Caplan’s discussions about the play critique the work itself. Playing the critic to make your work critic-proof is common enough, though often entertaining. But Caplan is harsh. Outlining her character’s mental health problems, then accusing her of being condescending and controlling comes close to the bone. As the couple circle one another, going back and forth through their relationship, there’s a danger of becoming frustrated or feeling a little too sorry for them. Maybe their big problem, and the play’s, is over-thinking. But, of course, Caplan knows that, too.
Until 18 April 2026
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